If you’re getting sick of my many reviews of Much Ado About Agile presentations, you’re in luck – not only is this my last review, but it covers two sessions (albeit on the same topic, by the same speaker). I’ll likely do a conference summary post after that, and then I’m on the hook for coming up with 19 more posts this month to keep up with NaBloPoMo.
On the morning of the second day of the conference, I listened to Christopher Avery speak about responsibility. I really didn’t know what to expect from this talk, and I hadn’t heard of Christopher, but the summary appealed to me – leadership is an area that I’m increasingly interested in developing. I spent all of Thursday in a tutorial with Christopher on the same subject – this post will cover both segments.
Christopher’s talk was centered around The Responsibility Process, which is a framework that describes how people react to adversity. Here are the five main states that someone’s mind can be in when approaching a problem:
* Responsibility
* Obligation
* Shame
* Justify
* Lay Blame
The idea is that when something bad happens, people’s minds land in one of the states above, almost always at the bottom. Often you’ll work your way up through the other states, stopping somewhere before responsibility.
As an example, let’s say that my team has accidentally shipped a critical defect to production. What immediately springs to my mind? “Whose fault is this?” This isn’t a particularly useful state of mind – blame doesn’t get you anywhere, and besides, most problems are system problems, not people problems. So, I say “well, this got out because we didn’t have time to test, and we have no budget for more testers, so I guess we’re stuck.” This is justification – I’ve explained away the problem, and now don’t have to worry about it any more. Unfortunately, the problem (or at least, the root cause of the problem) is still there!
Let’s say I realize that we don’t have the budget for testers, but I also realize that, as the manager, I’m ultimately responsible for the quality of the code. This realization could move me into Shame – “how could I have let this happen? I’m such a bad manager”. Many people stop here, and often shame is rewarded and treated as “responsibility” – if I asked my team who coded the bug, and someone put up their hand and admitted it, saying “thanks for owning up to it” would be rewarding shame.
Obligation is another state that’s mistaken as responsibility. Obligation is when you are trying to solve the problem, but only really expending energy and effort to be barely adequate to pass. Showing up to that meeting that you don’t want to go to, because you have to? Obligation. Almost everytime you use the phrase “I have to”, you’re talking about obligation. It’s important to remember here that the Responsibility Process is a framework for addressing your state of mind when faced with a problem or upset – in-depth analysis is not required when you say “I have to go catch my bus” or “I have to go to the bathroom”.
Spending too much time in Shame or Obligation can lead to a psuedo-state called Quit. This doesn’t mean you’ve actually quit the company, it just means that you’ve mentally checked out. The person who “has to” go to a meeting, then comes along and opens their laptop to read email, surf the web, or do anything else but be present in that meeting – they’ve quit. Christopher says that Shame, Obligation, and Quitting are the trillion dollar problem in information work today. By focusing your work hours on things where you’re truly excelling (instead of being barely adequate), the company will benefit and you will have higher job satisfaction.
How do you move from Obligation to Responsibility? This is the tricky part – it’s the idea of moving from “have to” to “want to”. You have to want to be responsible. That meeting that you don’t want to go to but you “have to”? If it’s truly a waste of your time, and you’re not getting anything out of it, talk to your boss and convince him that it’s not a good use of your time. Now, if there’s really nothing that can be done about going to the meeting (for instance, if your boss convinces you that it *is* necessary), you need to re-evaluate and see if you actually have a problem.
This kind of thing is hard to explain, especially with contrived examples. Furthermore, as Christopher says, you can’t apply this stuff to someone – you need to teach it so that people can self-apply. The class on Wednesday focused on the concept, and the the tutorial on Thursday focused on how to teach it. This included hands-on group work (trying to convince others of the concept in face of resistance), and an in-depth look at the “Keys To Responsibility” – Intention, Awareness, and Confront. I found the tutorial quite helpful, and it was useful to work with others to find examples, counter-examples, and issues that would come up when trying to teach the Responsibility Process to others.
Christopher is a great speaker with a smooth presentation – think motivational speaker, not time share salesman, but without any sort of evangelical zeal. You can tell that he really believes what he’s saying, which I suppose is only right since he’s been researching this approach for 20 years. For me, this smooth presentation simply meant that I enjoyed a nice delivery of content that I could relate to, but I know of at least one other person that attended the first day’s presentation was turned off by it. This surprised me – a coworker suggested that this was a consequence of (over-generalization alert!) people in the software world not being used to dealing with talented professional communicators. There was also a definite “self-help” bent to the presentation, which I know I find more appealing that some others. Overall, I feel that it was definitely worth my time, and I’ll be trying to apply what I learned to help myself and my team.
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